Why November could be the best month to get married

Off-season advantages

As the busy summer wedding season winds down, November offers the perfect opportunity to book a beautiful, exclusive-use venue like Solton Manor with ease. With more key dates available, you’ll have a greater chance of securing your dream setting on a day that’s right for you.

Getting married at Solton Manor in November means you can experience the  stunning estate in all its autumn glory, whilst enjoying exceptional value compared to the higher costs of the summer season. Opting for an off-peak date allows you to save money, giving you more flexibility to invest in those extra special touches. You could hire a live band, design a gourmet menu, or take over our entire cosy country manor house to make your day, and night, truly unforgettable.

Stunning autumnal aesthetics

November’s crisp autumn air and copper foliage creates the most magical backdrop for any wedding. Solton Manor’s grounds are filled with the warm, golden hues of the season, offering an intimate and cosy atmosphere for indoor ceremonies and outdoor photographs.

Our glorious gardens and leaf-carpeted woodland offer the most stunning setting for outdoor wedding photos, making every moment feel like a scene from a fairytale. After capturing those all-important autumnal snapshots, retreat to our Grade-II listed manor house and enjoy sharing a glass (or two) of mulled wine with your guests. The perfect way to warm up amongst the intimate charm of our manor’s historic interiors, before dancing the night away in the Dutch Barn.

Cool, crisp weather

For couples who love the outdoors, November provides an idyllic setting for a cosy celebration amidst the crisp autumn air. The beauty of the season invites you and your guests to explore Solton Manor’s beautiful grounds at your leisure – and with pet-friendly accommodation available, even your beloved furry friends can join in the festivities, making it a truly special experience for everyone.

November’s milder weather allows your guests to fully embrace the charm of our indoor and outdoor spaces, without the extreme chill of winter weddings. Whether your day brings crisp, cool air or a touch of rain (said to bring good luck), our cosy Dutch Barn provides the ideal setting for your wedding reception. With space for up to 150 guests, a fully serviced bar, dance floor, stage, and sound system, the barn ensures your celebration is full of warmth, laughter, and lively moments – whilst keeping everyone sheltered from the elements outside.

November presents some of the most stunning seasonal flowers for weddings, including:

• Chrysanthemums: These versatile flowers are available in a wide array of exciting autumnal colours, adding soft texture and warmth to any bridal bouquet or centrepiece.
• Roses: Roses are a timeless favourite and are available all-year round. Garden roses in coffee brown and rust orange, with jewel-like rose hips and beech leaves woven through, create a romantic yet seasonal vibe.

Minted + Brides recently announced their wedding colour of the year for 2025: a bold, punchy orange hue known as Verona Sunset. This shade is perfect for incorporating in your November 2025 floral arrangement – read our ‘wedding flower trends for 2025’ blog for further inspiration.

Embrace autumnal wedding themes

November provides the ideal opportunity to incorporate rich, warm tones within your wedding decor. Embrace the autumn aesthetic by opting for seasonal colours such as deep burgundy and earthy greens, with vibrant gold accents. Luxurious fabrics such as velvet and wool enhance the intimate feeling of the season, with natural elements such as pine cones, branches, and dried leaves adding a touch of elegance and sophistication to your tablescapes. 

Serve up some seasonal cuisine

Why not celebrate the flavours of the season by incorporating some hearty autumnal dishes within your wedding menu? Warm, comforting dishes such as roasted meats, root vegetables and rich sauces make the perfect addition to your November wedding breakfast, followed by seasonal dessert favourites like apple crumble or sticky toffee pudding. Hot drinks are a must, with mulled cider and a hot chocolate station enhancing the cosy vibe. 

Plan for all weather

While November often brings mild and crisp days, it’s wise to plan for all possibilities. We recommend choosing a venue with beautiful indoor spaces (like Solton Manor) so that you have a cosy, inviting setting for your ceremony, regardless of the forecast. For those must-have outdoor photos, cosy additions like blankets and outdoor heaters help keep everyone comfortable, ensuring your day is enjoyable no matter what the weather throws at it. Discover more in our ‘how to beat the British weather at your outdoor wedding’ blog.

Opt for cosy lighting

Once the clocks have changed, the days become much shorter in November, which makes lighting an important factor in creating the right ambience for your wedding reception. We recommend planning your November wedding ceremony for 1pm to ensure maximum use of natural daylight within your photos. 

As darkness begins to close in, focus on creating cosy corners with soft, warm lighting where your guests can truly relax and unwind. Fairy lights, faux candles and lanterns create a romantic and welcoming atmosphere, transporting your guests into a world of wonder and enchantment.

Keep warm with added layers

Not sure what to wear to a November wedding? For the bride, staying warm without sacrificing style is key. Fashionable layers such as a luxurious faux fur wrap, dainty shawl, or leather jacket will keep the chill at bay, whilst adding a touch of vintage glamour to your bridal outfit. 

Opting for long-sleeved bridesmaid dresses in rich, seasonal fabrics like velvet or satin provide added elegance and warmth. Alternatively, you could consider velvet shawls or knitted pashminas in coordinating colours to ensure ultimate comfort without covering up the beauty of the dress. To fully embrace the month of November, we just love swapping out open-toe heels for ankle boots – and make sure you have gloves to hand for those all important outdoor photos!

The groom and groomsmen may want to choose heavier fabrics such as wool for their suits, ensuring they remain comfortable and warm throughout the entirety of the wedding day.

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